Τετάρτη 22 Δεκεμβρίου 2021

Sexual attraction and power

 Sexual Attraction can be one of the most effective ways for losing your power to someone else- especially if, that someone aims at taking your power and manipulates towards it, knowing you are attracted to him/her.It never seems this way at first. Sexual attraction has a way of distorting your thinking, of skewng reality, of discarding all the warning signs that are obvious to everyone else. Unconscious sexual attraction can lead you to willingly give your power away to the other person. If you're unlucky enough to be attracted to a narcissist, he/she will manipulate you into thinking that he/she is the one giving. But gradually, you may feel that you are giving to him/her and it is not that voluntary. It is expected, almost demanded. Sexual attraction is the means through which the person can most effectively manipulate you into giving your power, especially your spiritual power.It is no accident that all major religions strongly advise against casual sex. The area of the body where symbolically creativity and survival lies is often very unsettled, almost reorganized through sex.And if this happens in a context of a safe marriage, it helps expand you power in co-creation with another.But if there is the slightest hint of selfishness, narcissism, ego agenda, then through sex the pother person has good access to your power. If the other person has none of their own, they ll take yours.

The strongest the attraction, the greater potential to take your power.Be wary when the attraction is so strong that it seems irresistible.Theamount of irresistibility is directly proportional to the amount of power you may lose. Losing your power to another means that you fear them, yet you stay with them, that you obsess about them, yet you don't want to, that you keep arguing in your head about what to say to them, but you never do, that you are resentful about them, but you hide it, that you hurt about them, but hide that too. Losing your power to them means that if you stop seeing them, nothing in life seems juicy or tasty. It means  thinking that your experience in life doesn't count unless you are with him. This is the time to try as much as you can to dampen your sexual attraction to them.Think of all the times they fell short, they acted weak and small.Think of all the moments your life was rich and fulfilling outside the relationship. Pull yourself away from the people who admire them.Cultivate your relationship with your spiritual source to start getting your power back. Power drainage through sex and sexual attraction is rampant especially among young and inexperienced people, who, in a distorted view of liberation, let them selves loose to energy vampires. Then it can take decades to take themselves back. Be careful when the attraction makes you ache. True falling in love makes you see everything else in a wondefrul light. Vampire sexual attraction makes everything else look dull and unworthy and your life energy is drained out. Be careful who you have sex with. Don't gove your self away easily and be especially careful of those who are charismatic, popular, the ones that everyone seems to be falling in love with. Keep your energy for those who are worth it and almost certainly then, the attraction builds gradually (not suddenly) in a peaceful, liberating way. 

Victoria Prekate, 22/12/2021

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